The problem is not that we’re looking for someone else. The problem is that some of us are not finding ourselves first. We believe there’s another soul out there to complete us. What if that other part was nothing but a part of ourselves? A part unexplored? Undesired, even? The amount of time we spend searching for a certain someone, if only we’d use that time doing things that make us happy instead.Explore our own company. Play with it. Romanticize it. There’s so much we can do, all by ourselves provided we allow us that liberty.